Tuesday, September 09, 2014
I'm so excited to share these wonderful photos! The lovely Jill McCracken did a wonderful job at capturing the sweetness of that newborn Ruby. Thank you so much, Jill!!!
Check out those arm rolls! They've only gotten rolly-er, and I love it.
These are eyes that were just looking into Heavenly Father's eyes. What a precious gift she is to our family.
Talk about looking right into your soul.
It was great having my mom there to wrangle everyone and give picture ideas.
There are several of us laughing hysterically like this, which are so fun. It was set off by my mom holding me in her arms, but those photos don't flatter anybody.
Three generations of fabulous ladies!
Theo is so sweet to his baby. He always does the little piggies to her toes, and he'll often remind me that she's a beautiful girl.
What a proud daddy!
It makes me love him that much more to see how he loves his daughter.
"This is how daddies hold their sons and mommies hold their daughters." -Corbin
We were outside this afternoon, and saw a very fuzzy caterpillar. Theo started talking to it, and offered to eat a tomato with it. How kind and generous to share.
There are a little stuffed moon and star attached to a shade on her bassinet. Since she likes to be awake from 8 to midnight, we stick her in there until she gets too lonely and she joins us in our bed. But in the mean time, she has figured out that if she kicks hard enough, the bassinet moves and wiggles around the star and moon, which she likes to watch. So while Corbin and I are in our bed, we see hers rocking pretty intensely. What a strong girl!
I would also like to give a shout out to the fabulous Sara, for jumping to our rescue on Saturday. We were at a baptism for a friend. Corbin was conducting, and I was nursing Ruby, and Theo was running out the door. Without our asking or Sara thinking twice, she jumped up and hung out with him until we were ready to parent him again. She did it twice through the meeting, actually. I'm thankful for wonderful friends!!!
Monday, August 25, 2014
My mommy was here for a week after we came home from the hospital. It was so wonderful on so many levels having her here. She is the first of our family to come visit Ithaca, and I knew she would appreciate all the beauty to be experienced here. I was glad to get to share it with her.
It was also nice being able to sit around when I wanted to sit around. I got to take a nap whenever I wanted! Grandma was so awesome when it came to playing with Theo and getting him all kinds of new toys and treats. What are Grandmas for?
My mom also did all the laundry while she was here, the dishes, picked up the house, went to the store. She pretty much did all the stuff I didn't want to, and I'm so grateful for it!!
Theo was feeling under the weather pretty much the whole time she was here, so we didn't go out and do as many things as I'd planned on. (I guess I had just had a baby too. It didn't limit me too much, but I didn't have a problem taking it easy) I don't think she was bored though, having two cute kids to play with and snuggle.
This was three days after I had Ruby. My mom kept telling me that I’m the woman that all other women hate, because I bounce back from birthing so quickly. I obviously can't take any credit for it, but I'm grateful. I feel so good; I love having my body back, and being able to snuggle Theo properly. That was one of the top things I was excited to do after I had that baby.
Theo has adjusted well to being a big brother. He’s not interested in holding her, or fawning over her very much, but he does give her frequent unsolicited kisses. He also places toys, or even his own blankie, on top of her to share with her. He’s very gentle with her, even when he gets frustrated that I can’t tend to his whims while I’m feeding her. His latest obsessions are Buzz Lightyear, Cars the movie, and the Big Bad Wolf. He goes around the house talking about the “Baaaad Wolf,” and I know he’ll get along with the Dr. Who fandom well.
Theo is very careful around Ruby, but doesn't quite get what's right. He brought a trow pillow into the kitchen, and I told him to take it back in the living room. When I went in a few minutes later, I saw he had put it right on top of Ruby who had fallen asleep on the floor during tummy time. Nice try, Theo.
One day, we all went outside to hang out. Ruby was in her bouncy chair, covered in a blanket and hanging out in the grass. Later Corbin noticed that Ruby's blanket was gone, and he asked Theo about it. Apparently, he had decided she didn't need it, took it into the house, and came back out to play. What a love.
She's a lovely baby, sleeping for 5 hour stretches at night, eating really well, and being very patient with her brother's tough love.
Theo is convinced that the bum cream is lotion, and refused to let me wipe it off his face. The little stinker has gotten into it several times, and each time he wants to rub it around. This pic will be blackmail someday.
He found the beanie Ruby got in the hospital, and tried to convince me to put it on. When I said it wouldn't fit, he demonstrated that it would indeed fit by wearing it himself. He looks like a little fish monger or something.
The other night, we were getting Theo ready for bed. Corbin told him he could take one toy with him, so he turned to his new Cars from Grandma and tried collecting them all up into his hands. Corbin repeated, "just one, Theo." and helped him put a few back. When Theo still had two Cars clutched in his hand, he dropped his head down and walked straight to his bed and climbed in. It was so cute, we couldn't stop him.
I guess I didn't realize how booty-licious I'd become, until it quickly went away after I had Ruby. I missed the extra cushion when I was sitting on a park bench watching Corbin and Theo play.
Here is a behind the scenes shot of Jill McCracken doing the newborn photo shoot. I can't wait to see those pictures! We also did some family pictures, and those will be wonderful too. Thanks Jill!!!
Saturday, August 02, 2014
She's here!!! My sweet baby Ruby is in the world, and she's better than I could have dreamed.
I'm excited to share the birth story, because everything went so well, and I am proud of my accomplishment.
(pictures not correlated with the story, sorry!)
|Our first Mother/Daughter picture|
On Tuesday, I was obsesively thinking about how the next day was the due date, and trying to not get my hopes up. I think that distracted me from the fact that I'd been having small contractions all day. I assumed I'd just been having Braxton Hicks all day long, and that they were just an annoyance. They didn't hurt, so I didn't think much of them.
|Theo was so excited to hold his baby|
|pointing out her eyes, nose, hair, etc.|
Thankfully, he had a poopy diaper and we headed home. Otherwise, it would have made the next few minutes very awkward.
|Daddy relaxing on the comfy bed with his girl while I stretched my legs|
It was great for him to be able to tell all his friends there that it was time to have a baby, and our friend gave him a ride back home. After I called the midwife to let her know what was going on, we packed up the hospital bag, left Theo with our lovely friends Sara and Ramona, and left for the hospital.
|She did not enjoy her first experience getting buckled.|
|Corbin chilling with his kids|
I laid on the bed and rested for a while, still in my street clothes. It was already such a different feel than with Theo's, much more relaxed. At about 9:15, I decided to take advantage of the jacuzzi tub in my bathroom. It felt amazing, to say the least. I poured water across my belly, and breathed through the contractions. Corbin brought a chair in the bathroom and sat with me. We talked about this and that, pausing for my contractions. My sweet husband seemed to ask me a question at the beginning of lots of contractions, so we'd have to wait til it was over for an answer. Eventually, I just had him stop asking.
|Ruby's first night at home|
I had Corbin say a prayer, asking for His help through the night. I knew I'd need it.
After a couple of hours in the tub, the contractions had gotten pretty strong. We had stopped chatting, and I would say things to myself between contractions to empower myself. One I said a lot was, "each contraction comes, does its job, and goes." I was focused on not worrying about the pains that would come eventually, only the one that would come next. Corbin was a wonderful support, helping me relax my shoulders, and giving me encouragement. His rubbing my back through contractions became invaluable.
|How cute is this little Disney buff?|
When I finally got out of the bath at about 10:45, I asked the midwife to check me and see how far along I was. I wanted to get a rough idea of how much longer I needed to do this- things were starting to get really powerful. When she said I was at a 7, I felt a little disappointed and concerned. I was hoping to be farther, and I didn't know if I'd be able to handle much more of it. I'd promised myself that if I could get to a 7 without drugs, that I'd be able to do it. But now I was questioning myself.
I stood up to resuscitate myself on the bed, and that's when the first huge one hit. I clung to Corbin for dear life, and had him press as hard as he could into my lower back. Up until then I'd handled the contractions quietly, but now I was yelling.
I laid on the bed, and had a few more contractions that really shook me. I clung to Corbin's hand as he pressed his other into my back and I yelled. But after only a few of those, right in the middle of a gasp, my eyes shot open and I said, "I need to push." Corbin said, "really" and dropped me like I was hot to press the nurse call button. He did not want to be the only one in the room when I started pushing.
The nurse and midwife came in (around 11), and told me to follow my body. I asked if I could push on my side, and the midwife said yes. She was telling me to follow my body, and my body said to PUSH. I did, even though the midwife wasn't even at the bed yet. She showed me how to hold my leg and open up. She said I was very close, and I asked if she could see the head, just to make sure she was serious. She could, and offered for me to touch it. I didn't want to. After one or two pushes, out was a head. I remember between the contractions that I was saying I just couldn't believe it. To give myself strength, I said out loud "my baby," so excited to meet her. The end came so fast, that it was surreal. Lots of yelling and gasping, and one more push later, out came the baby. (11:13 PM)
|Grandma and Ruby taking a nap|
They laid her right on my chest and covered us with a blanket. The next few minutes are a blur, but Corbin tells me that I started crying and saying over again, oh my gosh, my baby. I remember lots of "I can't believe it" statements too. I couldn't help crying, in awe of how beautiful she was, and how quickly it had all happened. This little spirit that we had been praying and waiting so long to meet was finally here!
I have never loved Corbin as much as I did in those first moments. The way he looked at his new daughter, and looked at me, and thinking about how much Theo was going to love his new baby, the tears came very easily.
In thinking about it later, I liked only having Corbin, the nurse, and the midwife there, instead of a room full of people. The whole affair seemed more personal and intimate, which I loved.
Ruby got to stay with me for the next hour, snuggling and figuring out this breathing business. She even practiced nursing, wasting no time maintaining her sweet rolls. At first glance, I could tell she was a big girl, the arm and thigh rolls gave her away. All the hair told me I came by my heartburn honestly. And looking at her sweet face, I couldn't tell who she looked like, so we decided she looked like Ruby.
We got to say a prayer as a family, thanking Heavenly Father for the safe arrival of our new daughter. Without His strength, I don't know what I would have done. I'm filled with such gratitude at our blessings.
Once I finally relinquished her to be weighed and cleaned up, I realized how exhausted I was. This little girl weighed in at 9 pounds, 7 ounces. She was 20 inches long. When the nurse was putting on her first diaper, she said, "the newborn diapers fit today, but they might not next Tuesday." (after we ran out of the first round of diapers in the hospital, they did give us #1 diapers)
Knowing how big she is, I feel so proud of myself. Not only for doing the labor naturally (and no tearing. Boom!), but for all the stuff I did while I was pregnant with her. No wonder I was feeling more tired and achy at the end. I've caught myself thinking, go me!
|Relaxing in the sun, warding off mild jaundice|
Here is a huge shout out to everyone who took care of Theo while we were at the hospital: Sara and Ramona (Sara's mom, who barely knew any of us, slept over at our house and took care of Theo single handedly until Corbin relieved her the next morning. I'm so touched.), the lovely Ludwinskis, and Kristy. It was such a load off my mind knowing he was in good hands.
Corbin was gone much of the day Wednesday hanging out with Theo, and I was surprised how much I loved the alone time with Ruby. We relaxed, slept, and got to know each other. Theo got to come and meet Ruby. Sara and Ramona visited us that night in the hospital.
Thursday morning, I was eager to go home. I was feeling great, little to no pain, pretty slow bleeding, and already shrinking. My baby was a big healthy girl, if a little yellow. I just wanted to be home with my boy. I was so excited to give him a proper belly-less hug and snuggle. So by 10 AM on Thursday, we were on our way home.
Our homecoming was very sweet. Theo was excited to see Ruby, and have us all back home. It was an amazing feeling being together as a family in our own home, one that I'm still enjoying the glow of.
My mom arrived that night, and has been wonderful and so helpful. I'm so glad she got to come, partly to see her new grandbaby, partly to help around the house and to entertain Theo, and partly so she can enjoy being on the East coast. We've been pampered, and Theo has been spoiled (in the best possible grandma sort of way. I mean, she took him to the movies for the first time today. Score!)
Very long story short: everything went smoothly and quickly with the labor. Ruby is beautiful, and I love my family of four. Life is beautiful, and I am so blessed!
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Here is a photo shoot that Theo and I had today. He wasn't feeling well, so entertainment from the couch was a nice distraction.
Well, This one is from the other day. Holly was so wonderful and sent us tons of clothes for Ruby, and some bonus clothes for Theo. He loved his new robot shirt and Buzz Lightyear pants! Thanks, Aunt Holly!!!!
So we started looking at pictures on my phone, when Theo was concerned that there were no pics of Mommy. We decided to take some selfies, and it just evolved into this...
Theo's approximations of my faces are too cute!
|This one is a favorite|
But when I busted out the curly tongue, he was histerical! He had to lean forward to get a better look at my silly face!
Then of course he had to try it.